a new year begins
explore, discover, savor
decadent treasures
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a new year begins
explore, discover, savor
decadent treasures
i am running into a new year
and the old years blow back
like a wind
that i catch in my hair
like strong fingers like
all my old promises and
it will be hard to let go
of what i said to myself
when i was sixteen and
twentysix and thirtysix
even thirtysix but
i am running into a new year
and i beg what i love and
i leave to forgive me
~Lucille Clifford
As you run into a new year, what are you carrying? We never enter a new year with the slate wiped clean. Our expectations, aspirations, judgements, promises and resolutions come with us. It becomes harder and harder to carry our ever-expanding load without letting go of that which is no longer helpful or useful to us. The new year presents an opportunity to assess our personal lost and found box. My tendency is to go in search of a larger box, holding tightly to everything, instead of discerning what can be gratefully and gracefully released at this point in my life. Mindfulness can help us notice what we can discard, rediscover what we may have lost through the years, and find unexpected treasures. I invite you to join me in loosening the grip on what we carry this year and discovering what is actually in our lost and found box.
Wishing you a safe, healthy, and mindful new year
January heralds a new beginning, a new year, filled with both reflections and expectations. For the past several years, I have challenged myself and others to start the year with a daily mindfulness practice — in the form of creating a haiku informed by something you have noticed or experienced during the day. I post my haiku to this blog, as well as to Twitter (@pamressler), Facebook (facebook.com/stressresources) and Instagram (@stressresources) using the hashtag #HaikuChallenge21 Haiku are micro-poems, said in one breath and steeped in observation. You may choose to follow the anglicized format of 5-7-5 (three lines, first line 5 syllables, second line 7 syllables, third line 5 syllables) or be more free form with your haiku.
During the ongoing pandemic, I challenged myself to dig a bit deeper in observation and have been creating a daily haiku ever since March 17. My daily haiku are simple, and are paired with a snapshot of something I noticed that day. If a whole month of daily haiku seems to ambitious why not try a day or two? As our worlds have shrunk, they can also expand as we notice and observe more deeply. Wishing you and yours a safe, healthy, and mindful new year…filled with observations and beauty.
reflecting on the past
observing in the present
ready for next steps
celebrate with sweets
beginning of a new year —
good riddance last year
New Day, New Year, New Decade, Old You, New You…the new year is often filled with anticipation of change. How will this year be different, do we really want it to be so? For me writing haiku moves me gently into noticing and observing in new ways…January 1 is the perfect time for me to challenge myself in this way. For the past several years I have hosted a Haiku Challenge as a way to jump start mindfulness in the new year. I consider haiku morsels of mindfulness…delicious in their simplicity and awareness of the present moment. You do not need to consider yourself a poet to create haiku…and you don’t even need to follow the formula you probably learned in elementary school — three lines made up of 5 syllables, 7 syllables, 5 syllables. Modern haiku do not need the formal structure that we are familiar with, but certainly can be written in this pattern. They do need to be written in the present tense as an observation that evokes awareness, thought or emotion. I love the description I once read…”a haiku is a poem that can be said in one breath”.
Come play in the haiku sandbox this January with like-minded folks! I will be writing one haiku a day for the month of January and posting them on my blog (StressResources.com/blog) Facebook (StressResources) Twitter (@pamressler) and Instagram (@StressResources) using the hashtags #HaikuChallenge20. Feel free to join in each day or only occasionally…be sure to share the hashtag #HaikuChallenge20 with friends…and let’s get writing!
Here is today’s first haiku of the new year #haikuchallenge20
First day of new year
letting go while holding on
push, pull of old, new
A new year is unfolding....
I have been considering how we create comfort during challenging times, apparently I am not alone in the urge to cocoon. I recently read an article in the New York Times on the Danish concept of hygge (pronouned HOO-gah) which is an all encompassing way of embracing coziness and warmth -- body, mind and spirit. In considering this concept, I was drawn to one of the comments I received in November when I asked readers what they wished they had had when they were caregivers to loved ones who were seriously ill...I received a response that was profound in its simplicity and accuracy...it simply stated "I needed soup" (thank you LL). Yes! Exactly! That's hygge!
What better way to comfort ourselves during challenging times than with a bowl of hearty soup. Soup exemplifies the tenants of mindfulness...it does not have to have perfect or expensive ingredients, it can't be rushed, you need to turn the high heat down and let it simmer (as with our thoughts in meditation) and it soothes and warms the body, mind and spirit from the inside out.
So this January to help you get started in the practice of hygge...let's share soup together. While it may be impossible to physically gather around a table in my house or yours, I invite you to join me and others in a virtual sharing of soup. I will be posting soup recipes throughout the month of January and would love your contributions. You may either post them directly in the comment section of the blog posts or you may email them to me (pressler@StressResources.com)and I will post them on the Stress Resources blog. Do you have a story that goes with a recipe...share it with us! I hope that the recipes will connect and inspire us all to practice hygge this January.
To get us started, here is a favorite recipe of mine...enjoy!
1 1/2 lbs boneless, skinless chicken breasts
2 cups carrots, peeled and chopped
1 medium onion, diced
3 stalks of celery, chopped
3-4 cloves of garlic, minced
3 T extra virgin olive oil
3 T butter
1/2 t dried basil
1/2 t dried oregano
6 cups chicken broth
1 cup water
Salt and freshly ground pepper to taste
24 oz egg noodles
In a 6 quart crockpot add in whole chicken breasts, carrots, onion, celery, garlic, olive oil, butter, basil, oregano. Next add in chicken broth, water and season with salt and pepper.
Cover and cook on low hear for 6-7 hours
Remove cooked chicken breasts and cut into bite-sized pieces. Place chicken back into the slow cooker. Now add in egg noodles. Cover and cook just until noodles are tender.
Now is the right time
possibilities unfurl
if we move forward
New year awakens
possibilities abound
still without judgement